On top of seeing Sebastián again, I had to see him with his perfect new girlfriend. @keyframes ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5{0%{transform:rotate(0deg)}to{transform:rotate(1turn)}}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq{--sizePx:0;font-size:4px;position:relative;text-indent:-9999em;border-radius:50%;border:4px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyTextAlpha20);border-left-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);transform:translateZ(0);animation:ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5 1.1s linear infinite}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq,._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{width:var(--sizePx);height:var(--sizePx)}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{border-radius:50%}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq._2qr28EeyPvBWAsPKl-KuWN{margin:0 auto} 14 Thoughts You Have When You See Your Ex’s New Girlfriend For the First Time. Chin up, we've got this. Well, I was having a conversation with my bf and he mentioned his ex, nothing in particular but out of sheer curiosity as I had no idea, I asked him what she looked like and was stunned when he said she was really pretty, much prettier than me. Im not blind, I can see in the mirror. I'm starting to feel like my time's running out on starting a family. 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So if he wants to be with a vile and mean, but beautiful girl. Even alot of ppl says she's not pretty. Now what can I do? Also he's only going to get older and more established so be prepared to be traded in as soon as you stop being young and start demanding stuff from him. Just like all of us. I found out later that my ex did still love me, and when he told me it was over, it was because he was hurting, angry, and feeling a whole bunch of other emotions that took him a … Unfortunately for me, my boyfriend has been pretty shady with me regarding his ex, so my insecurities are just heightened. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{height:24px;vertical-align:middle;width:24px}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} Evidently she had no interest in trying to work it out and she ended it. I was completely devastated. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Especialy feelings surrounding fertility issues can be complicated and cut more acutely than normal breakup stuff. He picked someone young because they're insecure enough to be low maintenance and will bend over backwards. Close your eyes and imagine that you are a tall tree that could crush her (and your ex) save for the fact that your strength is what keeps you from snapping and crushing them. It hurts and it sucks, but I all of this I can deal with. My ex’s new girl, (just like me) was carefully curating an image of herself that she wanted the masses to see. And that is much better than loving someone who doesn't think I am good enough. She just looks like she lives such an exciting life. There’s this idea that if his new girl is “less pretty than you are,” fatter, or less stylish, that you somehow won the breakup because after all – he downgraded, right? She's beautiful. My ex is also still single. We had been fighting a bit, but it was nothing that couldn't have been worked out. ._12xlue8dQ1odPw1J81FIGQ{display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle} And I couldn't imagine being so at ease when meeting all of Sebastián's lifelong friends for the first time, but it didn't even ruffle her a bit. ._3Im6OD67aKo33nql4FpSp_{border:1px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetBorderColor);border-radius:5px 5px 4px 4px;overflow:visible;word-wrap:break-word;background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);padding:12px}.lnK0-OzG7nLFydTWuXGcY{font-size:10px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:12px;text-transform:uppercase;padding-bottom:4px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-navIcon)} Yes, the ex-boyfriend, new girlfriend thing might be a hard adjustment, but you want to make it a little difficult for your ex too. Unfortunately there is little recourse when lige is unfair :( If you can get some counseling just to vent a bit it may help you. tell me about it. :). My boyfriend thinks I might still have feelings for my ex but really I don't. He has always been adamantly against having kids, and I was willing to give that up because he was more important to me. Stop keeping up to date with every aspect of their lives would be the first step. She also shows so much more composure and confidence than I ever did at her age. We met through friends and she actually asked me out afterwards via Facebook chat. /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/ReredditLink.f7b66a91705891e84a09.css.map*/internet hug. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve. .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} I drastically underestimated how much this would effect me. I resent Sebastián for wasting all my best years and hate myself for continuing to be hung up on him when he's so clearly (and quickly) moved on. Okay, so I dated this handsome guy years ago but I find that I'm still in love with him. It was all kind of unreal before this. No matter how wonderful she is, she has to put up with your ex. This was before they even met. /r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors. He picked someone lean and athletic because she is overweight. vile!) It felt AWESOME (not) that he went from me to her -- almost like he had no standards. He got to be choosy because he was older and established. More than a couple of my ex's missed me the same way. Behind every smiling selfie exists a desperate need for validation. His new girlfriend is very pretty; much prettier than me. My ex is a postdoctorate in a related field, and that's how they met. I don't like that. Must be something about your personality that was rubbing him the wrong way. Remember that even though she's tiny and gorgeous, I bet her farts make him almost pass out. Hah, so you're basically saying you're in this for the money. It definitely hurt that he was dating again so quickly, but given her age, I assumed it was just a rebound. Yes, perhaps she is better for him than me, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she is better than me. 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How do I get over my overwhelming jealousy and resentment? ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:bottom}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} You are not in the wrong for being hurt and confused that he could find himself in another seemingly solid relationship so soon. ._1PeZajQI0Wm8P3B45yshR{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._1PeZajQI0Wm8P3B45yshR._3axV0unm-cpsxoKWYwKh2x{fill:#ea0027} For example, Sebastián tried to order dinner for her, but she just kind of jokingly shoo'ed him away and did it herself in our native language. She went to one of the best universities in the world and continued onto a school of equal caliber for a PhD in neuroscience. But he's still my best friend. This super gorgeous girl started talking to him, hihowareyou, imgoodnicetoseeyou, blah blah. Inner peace. Some people are just not equipped to be single and attach themselves to a rebound, some start to mentally separate themselves long before they actually end the relationship and some are just have exceptional luck to find theor rebound is actually compatable. No wonder he cheated on me with her :(. Livia [25F] is this gorgeous little pixie of a woman. Every time she was the one who initiated to break up with we when we have quarrels. And I'm just so annoyed hearing our friends congratulating Sebastián on being able to catch a girl like Livia. I wouldn't be too jealous, but he said he wouldn't have a girlfriend for a very long time... and now here he is with her. And until I find the right guy, I will love myself. Woah, this is exactly my situation. She’s always traveling, or trying a new restaurant, or at some cool event in the city. 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